Ocie Jean Caldwell-Barnes Program

Aunt Jean The sound of your silence is deafening! My heart aches more than I can adequately express on paper. I learned from you, served with you, laughed, loved, and cried with you. There are so many life lessons you taught me; it is impossible to focus on just one thing. Your quick wit and one-liners might be raw in the moment but prove to be valuable for use in the long run. For example: “It is better to be asked up, than to be asked down!” “Don’t expect other people to do for you what you are willing to do for them. They won’t, and you will be disappointed.” “Keep livin’ and eventually you will know what I know!” “Know your folks…Don’t ask the electrician to change the water hose.” “Take care of your business or it will take care of you!” “Be kind or be quiet!” You were always able to make daily activities teachable moments. I am better because you were in life. In 1989, you took me under your wing and poured into me. You gave guidance in every area of my life. Long before we were connected by Christen, our relationship was special. When I joined the choir and you heard me play, you told me you were going to put me on the Pre-Anniversary Concert Program. I was obviously nervous about it and you said, “I will let Sis. Lucy Jenkins come before you and Sis. Jackie Haggerty come after you. That way if you're bad nobody will know because they weren't listening to you anyway!” Just her little comic relief delivered like only she could deliver it! Who knew that allowing me to play that night would lead to a personal relationship that is unmatched with any other human I know. We always said we were going to ride this “Naomi and Ruth” story to the end, and we did. My last musical endeavor was a tribute to you for our Annual Women’s Day. You loved the words and enjoyed hearing the Women’s Chorus sing it. I adapted it to honor your transition from Earth to Glory: He gave you strength for your journey - He gave you faith for your fight He kept all His promises - Your burden is now light My biggest heartbreak to date was watching you suffer. I am so relieved God heard and answered my prayer for you to have rest and be at peace. Until we meet again, just know my heart is shattered, but it is well with my soul. Luv you always, Ladybug! And On That Note In Loving Memory of Jean Barnes Jean Barnes my cherished friend, sister, and sometimes co-worker was a beacon of light, and a source of unwavering support. We gather to celebrate your extraordinary life and pay tribute to the incredible person you were. You touched the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know you. Your infectious laughter, compassionate heart, and genuine kindness left an indelible mark on our souls. In times of joy, you celebrated alongside us, filling the room with your vibrant spirit. In moments of sorrow, you offered solace and a comforting presence. I remember you adding your musical genius to the services for my Mom. Your friendship was a sanctuary—a place of acceptance and understanding. You possessed a rare ability to see beyond the surface, to connect with people on a profound level, and to make us feel seen and valued. Your genuine interest in our dreams, struggles, and victories made us believe in ourselves. You were a constant source of inspiration, consistently encouraging us to chase our dreams and embrace our passions. Your unwavering faith in our abilities pushed us to overcome obstacles and reach for the stars. Your belief in our potential fueled our determination, and your presence lit the path ahead. Your empathy knew no bounds. You had an uncanny ability to sense when someone was hurting, and you offered a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on without hesitation. Your compassion taught us the true meaning of friendship, reminding us that we are never alone in our struggles. Your zest for life was contagious. You embraced every moment with enthusiasm, reminding us to savor the In His arms you now find comfort - You have completed your race You kept trusting & waiting - Now you’ve seen Jesus face-to-face

simple joys and find beauty in the ordinary. Your adventurous spirit inspired us to step outside our comfort zones, to explore new horizons, and to live life to the fullest. Though you have left this physical realm, your memory lives on in our hearts. The impact you made during your time with us is immeasurable. We carry your essence with us, forever grateful for the time we shared, and the lessons you taught us. As we bid farewell, we celebrate the legacy you leave behind—the love, kindness, and compassion that will continue to touch lives for generations to come. May your spirit find eternal peace, and may we honor your memory by embracing the qualities that made you so remarkable. I am honored to have been your friend.